On one end of the spectrum, we have the business networking chapters and members who follow procedures and go through the motions throughout their networking life. After all, certain methods propagate because they work. Or we follow them because we’re told they work.
On the other end of the spectrum, we have the members who simply must go their own way and (often) rail loudly against the establishment. For whatever reasons, they need to do their own thing…hopefully with a careful look at their motivations and the repercussions. Whether the urge to strike out for new territory is born of ego or creativity will remain to be seen.
Your chapter needs a mix of both worlds. Use the proven methods as a framework…most of us need this framework…but don’t assume that the frame is the final work of art. Take creative liberties where it makes sense for the growth and strength of your group.
Dynamic groups are better suited to weather times of attrition or turnover. Who would want to join a stale group that’s procedurally correct but lacks an entrepreneurial business spirit?
In a way, your group must be self-seeking, or self-protecting. You fight for each other and turn away even your own parent organization if its activities take you away from your business focus. (Their goals will not always mesh with yours. For example, have they ever started another networking group right on top of yours? Or take over your meeting with a long sales message? Is that helpful to you, or do they compete against you?)
You can push back and still have a healthy relationship with your organization. You can play by the rules and venture out of the box. You can…you must…be loyal to your business family and still maintain some autonomy. Try it, and you will be a stronger, more profitable group for your members and your parent organization.
You may annoy them at times, but you’ll make your parent proud.
Posted by Jay F. Rowland 